Question Our Thoughts

| T. Franklin Murphy

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Question Our Thoughts to Uncover Realities

Acknowledging self-deception is disquieting. We live in an altered-reality formed by our own mind. Our perceptions seem so real we can’t distinguish the mirage from the surrounding arid desert. Life, as we see it, appears ordered, built on foundations of logic. We live in this subjective world. The colors, smells, and sounds project personalized images into the conscious mind. The meanings behind the observed facts are suggestible, quietly interpreted by the unconscious workings of the brain. Until we recognize our susceptibility to this unsettling glitch of perception, we can’t escape the illusions, naked and vulnerable to error. In order to catch these errors of the mind, we must question our thoughts.

Avoiding repeated disappointments, while expanding successes, is the hallmark of wisdom. The hardware of the mind extracts information from experience, examining associating rewards and punishments, and identifying the precipitating causes. This is accomplished through the blur of subjective perceptions. Phantom causes easily creep into these interpretations; events, people, or groupings get bound together and blamed.

​Wrongly generalized information can be damaging both to those judged and those judging. Our failures to thrive can easily be externalized by projected the cause on policies, scapegoats, or discrimination. There often is some truth supporting conclusions; but if we ignore relevant information that we have control over, we may never escape the tethers holding us down unless we seriously question our thoughts. Faulty attributions only serve as distraction from the work—never resolving the underlying cause.

Key Definition:

Questioning our thoughts means critically examining our beliefs, assumptions, and perceptions. It involves challenging the validity and accuracy of our thoughts and considering alternative perspectives. By questioning our thoughts, we can gain clarity, reduce cognitive biases, and make more informed decisions. This practice is often associated with mindfulness and cognitive-behavioral therapy.

Seeing the World Through Biased Lenses

If distorted interpretations were not detrimental enough, they don’t exist independently. Once we accept an interpretation as true that (faulty) reality lives on, infecting new experience with the tainted foundation of accepted falsehoods. Distorted views bias future interpretations of experience. These implicit biases manipulate reality to smoothly fit into accepted beliefs.

Pulling defined and usable information from the complexity of experience is a skill of survival, providing humans with an evolutionary advantage in this competitive environment. By storing wheat during plentiful harvest, civilizations were able to survive famines. Learning from past weather patterns, intelligent agricultural societies learned adaptive responses to unseen disasters.

We also learn on much smaller platforms. Seemingly insignificant events are pumped with information. We don’t have time to investigate each moment in detail, so we make quick assumptions to act upon. These mental shortcuts—heuristics—provide road maps for quick processing, saving energy and time. Thoughts magically influence events. We imagine invisible cause and construct ego protecting ideas. We must question these thoughts.

Pulling Information From Our Environments

​We scan the environment for familiarity, using incoming information to direct choice. The constant flow of information would overwhelm our limited system if each moment was processed fresh, without established knowledge to provide meaning. We readily disregard much of what we see and hear, once we settle on a meaning, determining whether the experience is helpful or dangerous. The meaning we give motivates the response.

We react much differently to the man running towards us if we believe he is a robber rather than a jogger. The binding of experience with past interpretations allows for quick action. The jogging shorts, the Nike shoes, and the ear buds signal safety and we gently step aside to let the man run by. When we pull appropriate information from experience that is helpful for future action, we succeed (usually).

Errant Conclusions

The problem arises when we draw inaccurate conclusions from the moment, creating faulty associations—the causes we determine responsible often are innocent and unrelated. Hurtful prejudices, stereotypes and assumptions impinge on fairness and obscure the true causes. We harm ourselves and we harm others with these faulty assignments of cause.

Beliefs learned from family and society are an underlying culprit. These beliefs dictate perceptions. Until we loosen our grasp on faulty beliefs, we can’t recognize their distorting effect. Only through willingness to recognizing potential errors (faulty beliefs) can we open our minds to detect the destructive delusions maiming our futures. Immediate reaction to imminent danger is essential for survival; but when time is available, we must invite higher order thinking to exam the world a little deeper, challenging biases, and considering alternate explanations.

Catching The Deceptions

We will never catch all the deceptions. Our lives would come to a screeching halt is we had to check every thought. However, it would do us good to occasionally check-in, question our thoughts, and explore our emotions.

Leonard Mlodinow, an American theoretical physicist, wrote:

“To gain a true understanding of human experience, we must understand both our conscious and our unconscious selves, and how they interact. Our subliminal brain is invisible to us, yet it influences our conscious experience of the world in the most fundamental of ways: how we view ourselves and others, the meanings we attach to the everyday events of our lives, our ability to make the quick judgment calls and decisions that can sometimes mean the difference between life and death, and the actions we engage in as a result of all these instinctual experiences” (Mlodinow, 2013).

Daniel Kahneman warns:

“Continuous vigilance is not necessarily good, and it is certainly impractical. Constantly questioning our own thinking would be impossibly tedious. The best we can do is a compromise: learn to recognize situations in which mistakes are likely and try harder to avoid significant mistakes when the stakes are high” (Kahneman, 2013).

We can limit systematic thinking errors. Some of our biases severally damage our futures. This are the ones’ we desperately need to find and correct.

Associated Concepts

  • Availability Bias: This cognitive heuristic significantly influences decision-making by causing individuals to base judgments on easily accessible or recent information, often leading to inaccurate assessments of event probability, risk, or importance.
  • Psychological Blind Spots: These unconscious areas of our mind are often rooted in childhood insecurities, hinder personal growth and self-awareness. Many adults, despite supportive upbringing, struggle with self-doubt and emotional reactions.
  • Confirmation Bias: This is a cognitive phenomenon where individuals favor information that confirms their existing beliefs while disregarding contradictory evidence. This bias impacts decision-making, promotes social polarization, and reinforces stereotypes.
  • Dunning-Kruger Effect: This is a cognitive bias where people with low ability overestimate themselves while those with high ability underestimate. This impacts decision-making and self-awareness in various areas. It cautions against overconfidence and the need for continual learning and self-doubt.
  • Primal World Beliefs: These beliefs, also known as core beliefs or basic assumptions, refer to fundamental beliefs that shape a person’s perception of themselves, others, and the world. These beliefs are often formed early in life and are deeply ingrained. They influence how individuals interpret and respond to various situations.
  • Cognitive-Experiential Self-Theory: This is a dual-process theory of cognition that proposes humans operate with two interacting information-processing systems: a rational system (conscious, analytical, and logical) and an experiential system (unconscious, intuitive, and emotional). It emphasizes the importance of understanding and integrating these systems for optimal psychological functioning.

A Few Words by Psychology Fanatic

So, let’s be honest with ourselves, shall we? We’ve all been there, haven’t we? That comfortable little bubble we construct, where our flaws are minimized, our choices justified, and our perceptions reign supreme. But that bubble, as cozy as it feels, is a mirage. It obscures the truth, twisting our understanding of the world and ourselves. The journey to genuine clarity begins with a simple, yet profound act: questioning. Dare to challenge those ingrained beliefs, those knee-jerk reactions, those stories you tell yourself to make life a little easier. It’s a humbling process, yes, but one that ultimately sets you free from the shackles of self-deception.

This isn’t about becoming a relentless self-critic, but rather a compassionate observer of your own mind. It’s about recognizing the subtle ways your biases shape your reality and choosing to see things with a wider, more honest perspective. Imagine the possibilities: clearer thinking, more informed decisions, and a deeper understanding of why you do what you do. This mindfulness, this constant questioning, becomes a tool for growth, a path to a more authentic and fulfilling life. So, take a deep breath, and dare to look beyond the illusions. Your truest self awaits.

Last Update: November 8, 2025

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