I appreciate simple guidelines (The Five Basics). Information unfettered by the confusions of complexity, makes for easy reading and easily identifiable areas to address. Whether its gratitude, forgiveness, mindfulness, or close relationships, they all give richness to our lives. But simplified information, distributed to the masses has inherent limitations. It’s not that simplicity is bad; or complexity is better. Both complexity and simplicity have their place in wellness with benefits and drawbacks. Many situations demand complexity while some flow better with simplicity.
Lost in the objective studies of behavior is the more human need for clear direction. But clarity in science drowns in the countless qualifiers, failing to motivate lay minded people like myself. Often the complex reality must be tempered, reconfigured into to smaller bites of information that pushes us forward, providing a sense of certainty. We seek hope, peace, and joy to soothe our soul. However, we must deliver these messages in purity.
We benefit from an encouraging push, that give us strength and confidence to conquer fearsome obstacles.
Simplicity tames the unapproachableness of complexity, allowing focus on fundamental issues—but the complexity still exists.
Social media platforms designed mediums, such as Facebook and Twitter, for these short and sweet motivational boosts. We are more apt to accept simplicity over more weightier matters. As Francis Bacon suggested, the river of general acceptance is more likely to carry those things which are “light and swollen” and “drowns things weighty and solid.”
Easy and Pleasurable Messages
Social media sites dedicated to well-being thrive on easy distribution, morphing complexity to digestible nuggets to appease consumers rather than inform. Many moderators endlessly post thoughts, pictures and quotes that cater to mass acceptance rather than scientific evidence.
Proclamations about life, love and success fly through cyber space, jumping from computer to computer, and mind to mind. Popularity, not solidness, becomes the driving force behind beliefs. We have yet to realize the complete consequences of unfettered electronic distribution of untested “truths.”
Pockets of history are bursting with frightening examples; the masses fond for the simple and familiar reject the complex and novel. Many great minds courageously suffered rejection and even death for challenging accepted beliefs. Perhaps, we will never fully embrace the complex realities of living. Complexities demand too much effort to distribute; money and fame usually fail to reward those proclaiming difficult to understand concepts. Complexity will always struggle, losing in competition with the gleeful simplicities of hope.
We may find momentary relief from the simple encouragements, such as “Life is meant to be enjoyed.” However, our momentary emotional boosts must address the real problems of living. If when situations motivate us, but we respond with incorrect action, we will find ourselves further from our goal.
We must not consistently ignore complexity. We should look a little deeper into behaviors, consequences, and current realities. Using oversimplified explanations for life may justify destructive action that damages relationships, careers and dreams. The appealing tug of a catchy phrase doesn’t make it true. Feeling good needs practical applications of doing good. We must follow through with actions that lead to desired destinations.
A few examining questions often reveal hidden weaknesses behind motivational statements. We delve into complexity by asking that momentary twinge of glee. We can examine a statement such as, “life is meant to be enjoyed.” By asking:
- Who meant for life to be enjoyed?
- How should we enjoy life?
- What if one person’s enjoyment causes suffering for someone else?
- Is life to be enjoyed in every moment?
- A child who does not enjoy school, should he/she drop out?
We Must Find Balance
The underlying message of enjoyment is appropriate; but without caution the message justifies harmful behaviors. We often adopt simplified statements without examination, allowing the simplified statement to form beliefs that quietly ruin behavior. Unknowingly our acceptance of a partial truth influences decisions that lead down paths we would prefer not to go.
We can enjoy heart-warming messages that give brightness to the bleak days of ordinary living. Inspiring messages cultivate our minds with hope, preparing the heart for improvement. But healthy integration requires skepticism, acknowledging limitations, and painstaking research to gather supporting evidence to new knowledge. We must be vigilant not to forsake the complexities by neglecting the weightier matters of truth. Our health requires a healthy balance of simplicity and complexity. Here we learn to enjoy life responsibly.